#1– Anal sex is dirty and messy.
While it is true that some pretty nasty stuff came come out of your anus, with reasonable hygiene this situation can be corrected. Anal douches (a feeling that is pleasurable), some rubber gloves, condoms, or dildos, most of the nasty stuff out of the butt play.

#2 – That is an exit ONLY.
While it is true that the primary purpose of the anus is to expel waste products, do you have any idea how many nerve endings are in that region? Do you realize that if you have been born a women that your prostate gland would have been your G-Spot. Just the relaxing and expansion of the anus can be extremely erotic.

#3 – How can my asshole be erotic?
One word– nerve endings…. And boy are there a lot of them in this region. In addition to the actual pleasure, the bond between two partners that can let go and communicate about each others desires is incredibly exciting.

#5– Anal sex is painful
If it is you are doing it WRONG. Anal sex should in no way be painful. Lube and relaxation are the key. If it hurts it is the body’s way of telling you to stop, take a step back and figure out what you are doing wrong. A screw vibe can also help in the situation. You basically screw it into your anus slowly. Not only does this give you time to “adjust” you can learn to relax your anal muscles.

#6– Anal sex is harmful and dangerous.
To start, lets remember that the anus is a muscle. Just like all other muscles in your body, it will respond to regular exercise and not wear out. Can you imaging what would happen if muscle worn out? You would not be able to walk by the time you were 15 years old.

#7– AIDS is transmitted through Anal Sex
Yes, AIDS can be transmitted through anal sex, but this myth goes hand in hand with myth #9. AIDS is not a Gay disease, it affects men and women not matter what their sexual preference

#8– Anal Sex is reserved for Gay Men.
Do you realize that most Gay Men do not engage in Anal Sex? Sex is not all about intercourse. Sex is so much more than intercourse but our society likes to think of sex as intercourse. Anal sex is for everyone.

#9– My personal favorite – “The bible says it’s wrong”.
This is from Leviticus and the story of Sodom and Gomorrah. I have read the story and no where does it say that anal sex is naughty. It does say that the towns were burned to the ground for some vague reference to being hospitable to strangers.

#10 – Straight guys who enjoy Anal Sex are closet Gay Men.
Basically what this is saying is that only Gay Men enjoy pleasure. This is crazy.

#11– Only perverts and sluts have anal sex.
This is true and false. Ever spoken dirty to your partner during a hot love making session? Ever called them a slut? Pleasure is for everyone.