Once the receiving partner has relaxed and begins to feel aroused, insert the toy or finger into anus.
Gently move the object in a shallow circular motion. With all the nerve endings in this area, the small motion should feel good. If it doesn't, stop or do something different.

Some women enjoy the in and out motion while others simply enjoy the fullness of a dong or toy.

There are many different kinds of toys for ass play. Be sure that your anal toys have a flared base bottom to prevent them from sliding into your anus. Also, the rectum is curved, so toys that are hard and straight can be uncomfortable if pushed to far inside. Sheath your anal toys in latex if you are going to share them, or make sure you boil them (if they are silicone) in between uses, it’s possible to pass HIV, Hepatitis and bacteria through sharing anal toys. You do not want to use the toy in the anus and then the vagina without sheathing it or cleaning it off, this can cause infection and bacteria build up in the vagina. Suggested toys for anal stimulation are:

Plugs - Butt plugs are wonderful toys that taper with a flared end, so that the sphincter muscles will close around it, and the plug will stay inside. For those just beginning we would suggest the Anal Ecstasy. It’s slender and jelly like tip is perfect for training and arousal, while its ridges enhance pleasure. If you are looking more for fullness, we would suggest a dildo or dong.

Tee Probe – This is a discreet, supple silicone toy, which will bring many hours or discreet pleasure. Its soft core and small base makes for comfort and easy release.

Anal Beads - The repeated opening and closing of the anal sphincters created by inserting and removing anal beads does put many people over the edge into orgasm. Beads come in all sizes and materials, and are usually tied together in a series, knotted into place along a string with a ring on the end for safety.

Dildos - For that unmatched in-and-out sensation and fullness, you can use dildos by hand, or strap them into a harness.

Strap On – The Jelly Bumble Bee is top of the line with its soft supple touch.

Good Vibration Plugs - These are wonderful added pleasures. Most plugs did not have the vibrating feature until recently. Anal stimulation has grown from taboo to experimentation. We have found many women enjoy the fullness along with vibration for a complete orgasmic experience.

The list goes on and on… You can enjoy anything from a Soft Touch life like dong to a simple and discreet slender tee. Your options are only limited by your imagination.

An excerpt from: Best Women’s Erotica
“It’s the cold night air, I feel you run your fingers across my body. I don’t know if I am shivering or trembling in anticipation as she undoes her jeans and exposes her secrets, a large strap-on. I imagine the exquisite stretching and fullness I am anticipating. I can hear voices and shuffling coming from the street as we are only 10 feet away in an alley. “We don’t have much time.” I feel me heart pounding as I hesitate about my next move. She grabs my hips and pulls me to her all I can do is follow. She turns me around and bends me over the bench. She lifts my skirt and turns it up over my back, stokes up the inside of my thigh, and then runs a finger teasingly under the edge of my panty leg. “You OK with this?” she asks. “Yes,” is all I can get out.

She hooks her fingers into the waist of my panties, pulls them off over my ass, and pushes them down my legs until they slip the rest of the way to my feet. I free one foot and spread my legs. I can hear the voices becoming louder. She eases a lubed finger into my asshole. I wait as she smears her cock. The same cock I would love to have in my mouth. She tests me, her cockhead nudging my asshole. I breathe evenly and imagine loosening, accepting the shaft. Slowly, she slides in. I grunt with satisfaction, the fullness almost unbearable. She reaches an arm around and pushes her hand between my legs from the front. Her fingers find my clit, then my cunt hole, and push their way into the compressed space. “Oh, yes” I chant begging for more as I clutch at an orgasm. She groans as she strokes my clit, giving me my last throbs of pleasure.”