Anal Sex is No Longer Taboo

So Many Fantastic Positions To Enjoy

Positioning yourself for anal sex should be a well thought out process. Here are a few positions for beginners as well as the more experienced.

When beginning to experiment with anal sex positions many people believe “doggie style” would be the grand-dour of positions. This is true if you and your partner are well versed and very comfortable with each other in this type of sexual intercourse. “Doggie Style” is not a position we would suggest for beginners as a matter of fact, for comfort and security we would suggest the “spooning position”. Here is our list of positions rated for the beginner to the connoisseur.

Spooning Position : Each partner lays on their side with one partner's back against the others partner's chest. This brings closeness and a higher comfort level for the partner being entered. The partner with their back against the chest will need to do one of the following for easier access for their partner.

•  Lay the upper leg over your partner's leg or

•  Spread your legs in a scissor like position with the upper leg extended out in front of them.

•  Another option is to have the upper leg bent and drawn up towards the chest leaving the lower leg straight down.

This position offers many positive aspects. One - it prevents the penetrating partner from moving too quickly. Two - it allows complete control over penetration. Three - this position makes it easier to judge your partner's reactions as to what they are feeling.

Missionary Position : This position allows the receiver to fully relax the anus while focusing on pleasurable feelings. The receiving partner lies on his or her back while the penetrating partner approaches from the top. The receiving partner will need to spread their legs or bend their knees up with their feet flat on the surface. Here is a big advantage that is highly overlooked… place a couple pillows under the receiving partner's lower back and anus. You will be amazed at how much this enhances the missionary position. This can be an especially intimate position, with both partners facing each other reading each other's reactions and pleasurable moments. This position also allows for touching from the receiving partner as well as an enjoyable masturbation position for both.

Once you have become comfortable with the above positions we suggest moving onto a few of these…

Doggie Style: Rear entry or the "doggie style" position is the one position most people associate with anal sex. Though this is the most common anal position, it's not necessarily the most comfortable or the best beginner position, as the position of the receiving partner tends to tighten up their anus. The receiving partner will need to be on their knees and elbows in the “doggie style” stature. This position works better if the receiving partner has some support under their chest or belly to lean on, so they can relax more, and possibly even so they can lean forward a little, extending their legs out and to the side behind them, which might put things at an easier angle for access. The giving partner should kneel directly behind the receiving partner, putting the penis/dildo at about the same level as the anus. Insert slowly and gently, and then commence regular sexual pumping when you are both comfortable. This position allows the penetration to be the deepest, and permits the receiver to enjoy the fullness with a more relaxed and opened anus. Rear entry doesn't offer the kind of intimacy or ease of communication that the other positions do, but for more advanced partners you will find it can offer the greatest amount of thrusting, penetration and pleasure.

Going beyond the “doggie style” position… advanced users may try the Flying Doggie position aka the Leap Frog.

Leap Frog: The Leap Frog is known for its different types of stimulation. Similar to “doggie style” the receiver is on all fours, the difference is that the penetrating partner is positioned higher over their partner and will be inserting into the anus in a more downward motion. When you have reached this point you are in the middle of a Leap Frog position – hence the name. This position allows the receiver to relax a bit more because there is not as much pressure applied in this position. For a tighter feel for the penetrator the receiver should keep their legs closer together, providing more friction and stimulation for both partners. When you begin this position, just like all others you will need to take a slow and careful approach as this position provides a different angle of insertion and will stimulate your partner in different regions of the anus.

If you are looking for deeper penetration we suggest carefully exploring the Wheel Barrel.

Wheelbarrow: Do you remember when you were a kid and you played the wheel game where you were on all fours and your partner picked up your feet and you had to walk with your hands as quickly as you could… well the wheelbarrow anal position is similar in a couple aspects. The receiving partner begins on all fours. The penetrating partner approaches from behind either standing or on their knees. The penetrating partner will lift the receiver's legs into the air, supporting their legs on their shoulders/chest or holding them out one leg to each side of the penetrator's body. The receiver must carefully support and balance themselves with their arms or they can lay flat on the surface. This position provides great pleasure for those who enjoy the deep penetrating feeling – it gives the penetrator an enormous amount of leverage to penetrate deep.